Yes, you can tie them to GND (through resistor) if you want to without damageing the device. Weather you should or not is an other question.
Pay attention to the table in page 14. There is a note for the SDO pin that says:
"This pin also provides configuration strap functions during a
hardware reset".
The DS states on page 12:
"Configuration straps allow various features of the device to be
automatically configured to user defined values. Configuration straps
are identified by an underlined symbol name and are latched upon
Power-On Reset (POR) and pin reset (RESET_N). Configuration straps
include internal pull-up/pull-down resistors in order to prevent the
signal from floating when unconnected."
From here, it is for you to decide what straping options to use.
Regarding the wake part. I assume that you need the wake in pulled high even if you dont use it. For the wake out, you can pull it to GND with ~10k Ohm.